Was Never a Flower Child

Sharing Stories

| May 14, 2022

Was Never a Flower Child

I was never a flower child.

I am of a lost generation,

between the Greatest One and the Boomers.

I threw no petals on a moon-beam’s edge,

although my face was pressed with longing

at the window in the summer of love,

while inside, I changed diapers and made lunch,

in my own summer of discontent.

I marveled about Woodstock

in a rocking chair amid lullabies.

I sang no folk songs.

I pounded no drums of protest for change.

I was never in a “sit in,” nor did I “drop out.”

I missed the communal dreams of shared corn

and shared love.

I played bridge, shared coffee with neighbors,

went to company picnics, bought new appliances,

and new school clothes,

and seldom read the paper.

Only a few years and the life path I chose kept me from being

in sync with the times.

I wore no miniskirts or tie-dyed shirts.

And worse, my hair was curly.

We took long drives with my husband’s

Nixon sticker on the car.

I do not know what I believed

about the body count in Vietnam.

There seemed to be no time to really think.

I had an unlined face and an unfurled spirit.

Although I was never a flower child,

sometimes, now in my senior years, I have a vision

where I am running freely through a field

with wildflowers in my long straight hair.

Jaris English of Renton is a retired Marketing and Public Relations professional, now a freelance columnist, board member of Allied Arts of Renton, and enjoys writing poetry, personal prose and memoirs.

SHARING STORIES is a weekly column for and about the 50 plus crowd living in the Puget Sound region. Send your stories and photos to ariele@comcast.net. Tell local or personal stories; discuss concerns around aging and other issues; share solutions, good luck, and reasons to celebrate; poems are fine too. Pieces may be edited or excerpted and shared on http://www.northwestprimetime.com. We reserve the right to select among pieces. Photos are always a plus and a one-sentence bio is requested (where you live, maybe age or career, retired status, etc.).

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