When I feel sad or worried, the rescues that often come to me are ways my mother transformed our house for seasons and holidays.
She was a talented and gifted artist who quit teaching school to raise my sister and me. Later, she returned to the world to be awarded with many successes. But, for you, dear reader, to understand how magical it was to live with her, you must know that we had very little…or less than that.
So, Mom walked about three miles to the nearest grocery and dime store to get what she needed, lugging home a bag…at that time filled with five dollars’ worth of materials—things she hadn’t gotten in the one-day grocery pick up with my father on weekends.
Coming home in the winter, we might arrive to the round kitchen table, a bedroom mirror centered on it and sprinkled lightly with powdered sugar snow and pipe-cleaner skaters.
Or the house could be fragrant with cookies or a cake she’d scrimped ingredients for from bare shelves. Or a pumpkin pie with baked crust triangle eyes, nose, and smile.
And Easter was one of her best projects. Days beforehand, she’d gently tap holes at both ends of a dozen eggs, blowing the inner eggs into a bowl to create angel food cake or omelets for the holiday. The shells were scrupulously cleaned and put to dry in the egg carton.
Then, she went to work with our little kid watercolor boxes complete with two tiny-pointed brushes.
Each year, I took all the eggshells that were for me and put them into an empty egg carton that sat behind a door in a cupboard. I took them with me to my first home where my daughter was born, and then to another house, treasuring these pieces of art above other objects I gave up to slenderize moves. I kept even the ones that had small cracks, trying to make little mends here and there.
Finally, six years ago, at 69, I let them go. Sadly, without taking photos. I guess we were too busy at the right moment.
But though they are gone, I still recall many of them, seeing her diligently creating them. How beautiful, how lovingly made. How reminiscent of the other amazing things she did through the years for us…to make home feel special, to help us feel that life was good, would always be good, and that we were loved.
Ariele Huff leads writing groups, and Ancient Healing for Modern Stress as well as online classes on numerous writing topics and life topics. She works from her home in Aberdeen, Washington.
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