FAMILY
When Jennifer and Charles met online, she was a little hesitant to pursue a relationship, because Charles, at 60, was seven years older than she. We are both glad that she didn’t let a number stand in the way of true love, but we recognize that age can matter, and it may it be a concern for you as you seek a partner.
BY JENNIFER Y. LEVY-PECK, PHD AND CHARLES PECK | June 17, 2014 at 6:53 p.m.
Who Pays for What on a Date?
Many people who are new to the midlife dating scene are baffled about how to handle dating finances. Who should pick up the check?
Starting a New Relationship Before Your Kids are Grown
People are having children later in life, so if you are considering a new romantic relationship after age 40, you or your potential partner may still have young children or teenagers at home. Most parents worry about bringing a new person into their kids’ lives, and it can be complicated …
Why You Need a Relationship Roadmap
When we set out to write our book on midlife relationships (which is due for release in the fall), we hit upon the idea of a “relationship roadmap” because it seemed that midlife relationships are sometimes hard to navigate. The truth is, we all have our own internal “relationship roadmaps,” …
Run, Don't Walk, to the Nearest Exit! - Relationship "Red Flags"
The last thing you want in a midlife relationship is a partner who makes you miserable, takes advantage of you, or hurts you emotionally or physically. There are no guarantees that you can avoid bad experiences, but learning the “red flags” can help.
Breaking The Silence
How many worries or concerns are you holding inside yourself instead of sharing them with your partner?
Living With Pets and a New Partner
Pets are an important part of many older people’s lives. As you date and enter into a relationship in midlife or beyond, pets can add to the fun or create – how shall we say this delicately? – a bit of poo.
Exploring New Roles
A new relationship is an opportunity to explore new roles. As you head into a committed relationship, take some time to think about who you want to be within that relationship.
Rowing Through Life Together
A loving partner can make all the difference as we navigate life's waters.
Let's Talk About Sex!
We recently had the privilege of presenting a workshop titled “Sex and Dating After 60” to a wonderful group of “elders” at a senior citizens’ center in Seattle.
Helping Your Adult Children Accept Your New Partner
Congratulations – you’ve found someone to love in midlife or beyond! Now you are wondering about the reaction of your grown children.
In Sickness and In Health
As we age, we often develop chronic medical conditions that can affect our life and our relationships. New treatment methods are promising, but most people with chronic pain or chronic illness still have a long road ahead of them, and their partners have challenges on this journey as well.
Step-Grandparenting Can Be Grand
Grandchildren can be one of life’s great delights. When you find a partner late in life, you may become a step-grandparent, which can bring great joy and also some challenges.
Enjoy Life Together
Life is short. Enjoy it together! If you are lucky enough to have a loving partner in midlife, remember to share fun on a regular basis. This keeps your relationship strong and your heart merry.
