Where does a stressed-out motivational speaker from Los Angeles go when she wants to leave the rat race? To Washington State’s own Whidbey Island – home of eagles, tall trees and endless shorelines.
Diane de Mere was a successful corporate trainer and image consultant. But it was definitely a ‘rat race’ kind of life. Instead of teaching about managing stress and making the most out of life, Diane wanted to actually live it.
Diane and her husband, Kent, grew up in the St. Louis area. “He worked for McDonnell Douglas, which eventually became Boeing. I worked for IBM,” says Diane. Then the couple moved to Los Angeles to follow Kent’s career and Diane decided it was the perfect time to start her own business as an image consultant and corporate trainer.
Diane’s other focus was animal rescue. “I started in St. Louis and when we moved to Palos Verdes, I connected with several women rescuing feral cats living in the hills and canyons.” They worked with local vets and adopted out all the cats they could socialize. Diane also volunteered for and raised funds for local charities.
In 2004, Kent’s career took the couple to Seattle. It was at that point that Diane decided to research and practice stress management – she wanted to drop out of the ‘rat race.’
“It was absolutely thrilling driving up to Seattle from L.A in a long 33-foot RV with 13 of the recued cats that I couldn’t adopt out, plus a rescued dog, too! It was the huge forests everywhere once we hit Oregon that took my breath away.”
After the move to Seattle (actually the Burien/Normandy Park area), Diane realized that their secluded neighborhood along the coastline overlooking Puget Sound was a dream come true. “It was heavily wooded and the ambience of living with nature all around us stole my heart. Otters, eagles, ducks and (sometime even orcas) were daily sightings.”
But when it was time to retire, the couple looked for a house that did not need as much maintenance and one with fewer steps. “I had to have a place that overlooked the water,” says Diane. “I wanted to continue to live in a place that had bountiful greenery and nature all around. We started taking day trips along the coastline,” she adds. One day they visited Whidbey Island, and that was it. “We settled on a lovely one-acre with a 1970 house with great bone structure that we could remodel over time. Most importantly, it had a pair of bald eagles living in the 80 foot tall Sitka Spruce in the back yard overlooking Admiralty Inlet.
“We had considered Hawaii, Florida or back to California, but the closeness to wildlife, the moderate temperatures, and very importantly, these huge evergreen forests were all very important factors for us,” says Diane of choosing the perfect retirement destination.
What she likes best about living on Whidbey is the slow pace of life and being surrounded by nature. “They call it ‘island time’ here. Everything is slower and it flows into every part of your being.”
One concern when they moved was Diane’s parents. Her father died earlier this year at age 97. Diane moved her mother to an assisted living community on Whidbey Island to be near her.
“Mom is 97 and still going strong. She was in assisted living back home, but she needed more of my care. We moved her up here to Whidbey. If she needs me, I can drop everything and be there in minutes. It’s close, yet she has her independence and I have mine. All of the infrastructure we need is right here on the island with good medical care and anything else we need.”
And Whidbey Island is so large and with easy access to the mainland, explains Diane, that she never gets ‘island fever.’ With abundant nature, beautiful parks, endless beaches, charming towns and friendly islanders, Whidbey Island is Diane’s own slice of heaven. “It offers a great mix of everything,” she exclaims.
When asked if there are any drawbacks to living on Whidbey, Diane replies, “I can’t think of a one.” Would she recommend it as a retirement destination? “1000 percent! We did a lot of research about retirement destinations before we moved here. If you love nature, it’s one of the top places to consider.” She highly recommends taking a step back from the concrete jungle into pastoral living.
Diane de Mere documented her journey from board room to the great outdoors and published a book about it: “Happy Tales: How to Manage Stress and Find Peace and Joy.” Her story is set against the background of changing careers, relationships with elderly parents and wonderful animal stories along the way, including adventures in nature, the wildlife she meets and the high jinks of her rescued pets. “I was searching for new ways to manage stress and find peace and joy,” said Diane. “What I found was myself and my own strength.” Her book is available at WestBow Press, Barnes & Noble, and Amazon.
